Proactive parts - managers

Preemptive controllers that keep life neat so exiles stay “safe”.

Description

Managers perfect, plan, and police. They fear chaos more than pain, preferring reputation, routine, and rules. They’ll trade intimacy for safety and criticize to maintain control.

What Proactive parts - managers is NOT:

Executive function; healthy discipline; “the adult in the room.”

Examples:

Editing an email ten times to avoid disapproval.
Setting “standards” that conveniently avoid closeness.
Researching forever to never decide.

see also:

Protectors; Reactive parts - firefighters; Exiles; Boundaries